assalamo 3alaikom wara7mato Allah wabarakatoh

THIS IS AN ANGEL ... THIS IS A DEVIL ... THIS IS AN IGNORANT ... HE IS A MARTYR ... ETC

These judgements we all can hear in our society. By one word we judge a person if he/she an angel or he/she a devil or an ignorant completely or even a martyr. I think that we don't like to be objectives in our thinking and judgement. NO HUMAN IS ANGEL ,NO HUMAN IS DEVIL, NO ONE IS IGNORANT COMPLETLY AND NO ONE KNOW MARTYRS BUT ALLAH ... So, why we used to summarize the human's life in one word .. THIS IS UNFAIR REALLY ... Allah "soba7anaho wala3ala" didn't judge any one by this way at all even the worst persons we know in this world "Fer3awn" .. when Allah talked about Fer3awn he said: " اذهبا إلى فرعون إنه طغى * فقولا له قولا لينا لعله يتذكر أو يخشى " ... Really, so different way of judgement. So, why we are so hurry to judge ppl?? . Why we don't like to grant them a CHANCE to repent?? Why do we like to destroy ppl and even don't like to just hear them??? Why we accuse who has a different viewpoint of ignorance??? Why when we hate someone we way "He is a devil"??? Why when we like someone we way "He is martyr ??

I think that we should be more mercifuls, objectives and rational

Prophet Mohammad "salla Ahhalo 3alaihe wasallam" didn't despair to invite Omar Ibn El-Khattab to Islam and didn't consider him a devil while Omar was the most one who shows enmity to Muslims. But later Omar became the second best companion after Abo bakr "radia Allaho 3anhom".

 Prophet Mohammad "salla Ahhalo 3alaihe wasallam" didn't accuse AlHobab Ibn Almonzer of ignorance when AlHobab has criticized the residence place which has been choosen by the prophet in OHOD incursion.

Prophet Mohammad "salla Ahhalo 3alaihe wasallam" has declared that he doesn't know the eternal fate to ppl (Heaven or Hell). So, how did we know that??? The martyr's eternal fate is to Heaven for sure BUT no one know that for any one.

Salam.

 I believe that all of us are humans we can not find someone 100% devil or 100% angel but it is still not the problem in my opinion. The problem not that someone is angel or devil… good or bad … an ignorant or a martyr BUT the most dangerous is when you meet someone is completely in the wrong way but he is trying to show for others that he is the right one and he is the victim not the executioner. And also you can meet some people knows inside themselves that they are criminals but they are trying to appear as the martyrs. Sometimes you can meet people thinking that they are only the smarter and they are considering the others as stupid.. But no I am sure that, they are the stupidest when they thinking like that. Because it is easy to fool all the people for some time BUT it’s impossible to fool some people for all the time. Finally I belief that all of us have mistakes and sure we have the rights to ask the others to forgive us, but on other hand we can not forcing them to do that specially if we do a lot of things made them felt hurt or pain. And we should not say about them that they are oppressive if they can not forgive us. Because you are not responsible about what people are thinking about you, BUT you are responsible about what you given them to thinking about you.

wa3alaikom alsalam wara7mato Allahi wabarakato sister white horse. Hello every one .. Thanks a lot all my friends for your comments which make the discussion more useful .. First, I think that those whom trying to show for others that they are right and victims while they in reality are executioners, that they do sins and INSIST on doing it and they don't declare any repentance BUT what i mean that man is evaluated by ALL his/her deeds in this life and ALLAH "sob7anaho wata3ala" will judge all ppl in the judgement day by THE BALANCE "AL-MYZAN" which has two pans; one for good deeds and another for bad deeds .. As we all agree that no one is fully angel and no one is fully devil .. SO NO ONE CAN KNOW WHAT PPL HIDE IN THEIR HEARTS ... So, no one can summerize the man's life in one word .. it's extremely UNFAIR .. I think that evaluating ppl based on their superficiality or their appearance "ظاهرهم" and what they declare NOT what they hide because no one know the invisible .. Second, yes sister white i agree 100% the we all should be frank and honest with Allah and he will guide us and protect us, and we shouldn't give hope to ppl because mostly they let others down ... Really, a lot of thanks to you all my friends and i wish Allah protect all of us and guide us to the right way, he is the only one who can do it .. Assalamo 3alaikom all

I am totaly agree with u mido u really hit the mark...actually judging on ppl by first impression could be unfair,but when it comes by their deeds its completly fair..Allah sob7anho wa ta3ala described humans as devils (shayaten el ens) cause if we come to the word itself devil it doesnt mean the type of creature,but it means the manners of that creature thats why their is human's devil and evil's devil....in addition,ppl hv all the rights to call anyone or describe him/her by the word that they think it fits their personality,for example,how come we call that person is bloody or crimnal??the same thing that when we meet someone nice and call him kind!!!what make us hv the right to call him so??ofcourse his or her deeds..in my opinion a human beings is a group of situations and from these situations wether its bad or good i can give him the descrption which fits him/her....ofcourse all of us not angels cause we live on earth but i guess when it comes to harm someone its very awful...the problem that we live in very hard time actually they consider the kind or honest person as a stupid person,and the liar and cheater as a great person.people wear masks and we deal with them as angels,and whats really painful that when someone wake up one day to discover the angel has converted into devil...i guess all of us faced so...actually ppl keep on wearing masks and acting,and as mido said the person can act for sometimes but not most of the time,cause it will come a day and that mask which he/she used to hide behind will be dropped...and dont expect that when u harm someone ,and even if that person used to be forgiver that he/she will forgive u this time...so to avoid hearing such a descrption which we all hate we shoud watch our deeds and always remember that Allah is here..the problem that we dont feel satisfy with what we hv,and we stand in front of all ppl to achieve our self interests,and we let the ppl go in to path and we choose another path,and after suffering in that path we return with our injuries serching 4 those ppl and as long as u try to approsh them they go far away,and u cant join them not even hving their forgivness..so to avoid such words remember that Allah is everywhere ,and in this case u will never be called by such descrpitions

All I wanna say is that its not us who are going to judge people and say that this man is criminal and that other one is innocent we havent the right just to condemn ppl just to follow ppls faults and gaffes simply bcz we r all sins ,i mean we are all wrong doers no body is infallible. its God who is the most gracious the most merciful so lets all seek God's repentance may he accepts.

ASSALAM-O-ALLAIKUM WAREHAMAT-ULLAHE WABARKATHO,

Hope you all will be fine, first of all vision set a good topic which has enormous capacity of discussion. When we talk about evaluating peoples its mean we want to judge others’ personality treats. Many friends focused that we can not assess one’s in first instance, is most acceptable statement. We can never appraise any one in one or two meetings. But after meeting again and again to any one if we found any ethical and moral lackness we must indicate him/her politely instead of spreading to other. Here i will add a quote ( HADITH QUDSI  ) of our Great Prophet ( MAY ALLAH PEACE BE UPON HIM ), He said

“ALLAH says, if someone keeps in searching to find some thing bad into other person with the intention to defame him/her with his/her weakness. (ALLAH says) i swear to my greatness s/he will not die till s/he does not discover the same property (defect) in his own.” 

in other hand UMER-BIN-KITAB ( Razee Allah Tala Anho ) asking to ABUBAKKAR SIDDIQUE ( Razee Allah Tala Anho ) “Kindly indicate me my mistakes and deficiencies so that I can remove it”

if I want to encompass my above words I will simply say that being friend, relative and part of the society we must evaluate others and indicate their weakness so that people can improve themselves and we should praise the goodness of others too, we should include ourself in this cycle as well. It will help us to build an enviable society. 

ALLAH HAFIZ
 

Yes, Allah sob7anaho wata3ala asked sinners to repair what they spoiled before especially what belongs to humans ... so, sinners have to apologize to whom they hurted and ask them for forgiveness ... it's not difficult to be understood .. i wonder why many ppl insist to change the basics of our religions ?? and Allah sob7anaho wata3ala has given us the right to forgive of not BUT HE HAS URGED US IN MANY PARTS IN NOBEL QURAAN TO BE FORGIVINGS AND MERCIFUL .. really this discussion doesn't have a spave enough to mention all those parts of Nobel Quraan which urging to be forgivings .. but for example:

"وسارعوا إلى مغفرة من ربكم وجنة عرضها السماوات والأرض أعدت للمتقين ، الذين ينفقون في السراء والضراء والكاظمين الغيظ والعافين عن الناس ، والله يحب المحسنين" ـ

"والذين إذا فعلوا فاحشة أو ظلموا أنفسهم ذكروا الله فاستغفروا لذنوبهم ومن يغفر الذنوب إلا الله ولم يصروا على ما فعلوا وهم يعلمون ، أولئك جزاؤهم مغفرة من ربهم وجنات تجري من تحتها الأنهار خالدين فيها ونعم أجر العاملين " ـ

Allah forgives us .. so how don't us forgive others??

"ولا يأتل أولو الفضل منكم والسعة أن يؤتوا أولي القربى والمساكين والمهاجرين في سبيل الله وليعفوا وليصفحوا ألا تحبون أن يغفر الله لكم والله غفور رحيم " ـ "

I think that no need to talk after the words of Allah .. gazakom Allaho 5airan all my friends .. May Allah protect all of us and May Allah bestow his forgiveness and mercy upon all of us

Thanks a lot

assalamo 3alaikom